Chapter 7
1 un baton ke vishay men jo tum ne likhee, yah achchha haai, ki puroosh sree ko n chhue.
2 parantu vyaabhaichar ke dr se har aek puroosh kee patnee, aur har aek satraee ka pati ho.
3 paati apanee patnee ka hakk poora kare aur vaaise hee patnee bhee apane pati ka.
4 patnee ko apanee deh par aadhaikar naheen par usake pati ka adhaikar haai vaaise hee pati ko bhee apanee deh par adhaikar nahee, parantu patnee ko.
5 tum aek doosare se alag n raho parantu keval kuchh samay tak apas kee sammaati se ki praarthna ke liye avakash mile, aur fir aek sath raho, aeesa n ho, ki tumhare asanyam ke karan shautan tumhen parakhe.
6 parantu maain jo yah kahata hoon vah anumati haai n ki agyaa.
7 maain yah chahata hoo, ki jaaisa maain hoo, vaaisa hee sab manushy hon parantu har aek ko parameshvar kee or se vishosh vishosh baradan mile haain kisee ko kisee prakar ka, aur kisee ko kisee aur prakar ka..
8 parantu maain aavivaahiton aur vidhavaon ke vishay men kahata hoo, ki un ke liye aeesa hee rahana achchha haai, jaaisa maain hoon.
9 parantu yadi ve sanyam n kar sake, to vivah karen kyonaki vivah karana kamatur rahane se bhla haai.
10 jin ka byah ho gaya haai, un ko maain nahee, baran prabhu agyaa deta haai, ki patnee apane pati se alag n ho.
11 aur yaadi alag bhee ho jaa, to bin doosara byah kiae rahe ya apane paati se fir mel kar le aur n paati apanee patnee ko chhode.
12 doosaren se prabhu nahee, parantu maain hee kahata hoo, yadi kisee bhai kee patnee vishvas n rakhtee ho, aur usake sath rahate se prasann ho, to vah use n chhode.
13 aur jis sree ka pati vishvas n rakhta ho, aur usake sath rahane se prasann ho vah paati ko n chhode.
14 kyonaki aeesa paati jo vishvas n rakhta ho, vah patnee ke karan pavitra ttharata haai, aur aeesee patnee jo vishvas naheen rakhtee, paati ke karan paavitra ttharatee haai naheen to tumhare ladkebalen ashuuddh hote, parantu ab to paavitra haain.
15 parantu jo puroosh vishvas naheen rakhta, yaadi vah alag ho, to alag hone do, aeesee dasha men koi bhai ya baahin bandhan men naheen parantu parameshvar ne to hamen mel milap ke liye bulaya haai.
16 kyonaki he sre, too kya janatee haai, ki tum apane pati ka uddhar kara le? aur he puroosha, too kya janata haai ki too apanee patnee ka uddhar kara le?
17 par jausa prabhu ne har aek ko bantta haai, aur parameshvar ne har aek ko bulaya haai vaaisa hee vah chale: aur maain sab kaleesiyaon men aeesa hee ttharatah hoon.
18 jo khtana kiya hu bulaya gaya ho, vah khtanaraahit n bane: jo khtanaraahit bulaya gaya ho, vah khtana n karaae.
19 n khtana kuchh haai, aur n khtanaraahit parantu parameshvar kee agyaaon ko manana hee sab kuchh haai.
20 har aek jan jis dasha men bulaya gaya ho, usee men rahe.
21 yaadi too das kee dasha men bulaya gaya ho to chinta n kara parantu yaadi too svatantra ho sake, to aeesa hee kam kara.
22 kyonaki jo das kee dasha men prabhu men bulaya gaya haai, vah prabhu ka svatantra kiya hua haai: aur vaaise hee jo svatantrata kee dasha men bulaya gaya haai, vah maseeh ka das haai.
23 tum dam dekar mol liye gaae ho, manushyon ke das n bano.
24 he bhaiyo, jo koi jis dasha men bulaya gaya ho, vah usee men parameshvar ke sath rahe..
25 kunvaariyon ke vishay men prabhu kee koi agyaa mujhe naheen milee, parantu vishvasayogy hone ke liye jaaisee daya prabhu ne mujh par kee haai, usee ke anusar sammaati deta hoon.
26 so meree samajh men yah achchha haai, ki ajakal klesh ke karan manushy jaaisa haai, vaaisa hee rahe.
27 yaadi tere patnee haai, to us se alag hone ka yatn n kara: aur yaadi tere patnee nahee, to patnee kee khoj n kara:
28 parantu yadi too byah bhee kare, to pap naheen aur yadi kunvaree byahee jaae to koi pap naheen parantu aeeson ko shaareearik dukh hoga, aur maain bachana chahata hoon.
29 he bhaiyo, maain yah kahata hoo, ki samay kam kiya gaya haai, isaliye chaahiae ki jin ke patnee ho, ve aeese hon mano un ke patnee naheen.
30 aur ronevale aeese ho, mano rote naheen aur anand karanevale aeese ho, mano anand naheen karate aur mol lenevale aese ho, ki mano un ke pas kuchh haai naheen.
31 aur is sansar ke baratanevale aeese ho, ki sansar hee ke n ho len kyonki is sansar kee reeti aur vyavahar badalate jate haain.
32 so maain yah chahata hoo, ki tumhen chinta n ho: aavivaahit puroosh prabhu kee baton kee chinta men rahata haai, ki prabhu ko kyonkar prasann rakhe.
33 parantu vivaahit manushy sansar kee baton kee chinta men rahata haai, ki apanee patnee ko kis reeti se prasann rakhe.
34 vivaahita aur aavivaahita men bhee bhed haai: avivaahita prabhu kee chinta men rahatee haai, ki vah deh aur atma donon men paavitra ho, parantu vivaahita sansar kee chinta men rahatee haai, ki apane pati ko prasann rakhe.
35 yah bat tumhare hee labh ke liye kahata hoo, n ki tumhen fansane ke liye, baran isaaliye ki jaaisa sohata haai, vaaisa hee kiya jaae ki tum aek chitt hokar prabhu kee seva men lage raho.
36 aur yaadi koi yah samajhe, ki maain apanee us kunvaree ka hakk man raha hoo, jis kee javanee ddhl chalee haai, aur prayojan bhee hoa, to jaaisa chahe, vaaisa kare, is men pap nahee, vah usaka byah hone de.
37 parantu jo man men draddh rahata haai, aur us ko prayojan n ho, baran apanee ichchha pooree karane men adhaikar rakhta ho, aur apane man men yah bat ttan lee ho, ki maain apanee kunvaree ladkee ko bin byahee rakoonga, vah achchha karata haai.
38 so jo apanee kunvaree ka byah kar deta haai, vah achchha karata haai aur jo byah naheen kar deta, vah aur bhee achchha karata haai.
39 jab tak kisee sree ka paati jeevit rahata haai, tab tak vah us se bandhaee hui haai, parantu jab usaka pati mar jaa, to jis se chahe vivah kar sakatee haai, parantu keval prabhu men.
40 paranatu jesee haai yaadi vaaisee hee rahe, to mere vichar men aur bhee dhany haai, aur maain samajhta hoo, ki parameshvar ka atma mujh men bhee haai..